Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Getting caught up...

As our family found out, a lot can change in just two weeks. As most of you have heard, on March 6, we received the news that Barb/Mom has Inflammatory Breast Cancer, which had spread through the lymphatic channels. At that time, the doctor diagnosed her at Stage IV. We all took turns feeling shocked, breaking down in tears, encouraging each other, hugging, getting mad...the whole gamut of emotions. However, true to her character, it did not take long for Mom to begin reading all about IBC. We found out that it is a very rare type of breast cancer that only affects 1%- 3% of people with breast cancer. It does not show up in mammograms and is very hard to detect. We also found out it is pretty aggressive and can spread within a matter of weeks. This explains why it did not show up in the bloodwork that she had done in January. That was the good news; we caught it early.

Mom went in for a PT Scan the following week, and we found out more good news last Thursday. The cancer has NOT spread, and there are no other tumors anywhere in her body! Thank you, God! The oncologist revised her stage as Stage IIIB and put together an action plan for her. This plan consists of four courses (each course lasting three weeks) of chemotherapy, beginning Thursday, March 20. She will be examined throughout the treatment to monitor how the cancer is reacting to the chemo and any necessary adjustments will be made along the way. After this first round of chemo, she will undergo a surgery to remove the tumor from the breast. The surgery will be followed by more chemotherapy. Although we do not know how long all of this will take, we are anticipating a tough year ahead. However, out of us all, my mom is probably more ready for it than anyone!

From the very beginning, when the first doctor told her she had IBC, she quoted scripture right there in the office. Her bravery is evidence of her unwaivering faith. At times, it is my mom who is encouraging the rest of us, telling us it will all be OK. As we have been our whole lives, we are just amazed by her!

Although her spirit is strong, we know there are tougher times ahead. We hope this blog will be a great way to keep everyone updated on her health, but also a way for you to share your prayers, words of encouragement, favorite verses, or advice for her to use as she battles this disease. We will print out the posts for her to read during treatment. Please feel free to pass the site along to those you know who are praying for her. Finally, our hope is that this can serve as a testimony to others going through similar issues and a way to journal this upcoming year.

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers! We need them and appreciate your support and love!
Love,
All the kids

13 comments:

elizabeth said...

I will definitely be praying for you all. I love your mom and she has meant a lot to me, just from being the wonderful 5th grade teacher. Let me know if you need anything at all. (liz Holmes)

Tony said...

Our family is praying for your family...

Anonymous said...

I'm part of the Katie/Grand Rapids, Michigan connection: Caught my breath when the first prayer request came through. Praised our marvelous God when the update indicating stage III. Will be praying as updates come. I know you all rest in the blessed arms of Jesus as you walk through this! Blessings.

Leslie said...

Most definitely we will be praying for you all. We love you and please let us know if there is anything we can do for any of you!
~Leslie and Charlie Smith

Unknown said...

This is a great idea. We are praying for you all and for a complete healing for Barbara. Please do let us know if there is anything we can help out with. We are just around the corner! We love you guys, Evelyn and Don

Daniel Balboa said...

The Balboa Family Has, Is, and Will be praying.

We love you Barb.

D & B

p&phansma said...

I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago. I will meditate on all your works and consider all your mighty deeds.
Ps. 77:11-12

Our hopes and prayers rest in the Lord who is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow....the Lord of miracles!

Anonymous said...

Dear Family and Barb,
Have been praying for you since we heard of the suspect of cancer. We were so sorry to hear of the results, but are ready to get in the fight with prayer!!
We love you, Barb, and know that you are in God"s hands and He is in charge. Randy, we know that it is very difficult to have to stand by and WAIT, but we have heavy prayers lifting you up also. If there is anything we can do for you, Barb, or the family please let us know. We will be putting you on some prayer chains. God Bless you all. Love Leonard and Trudy Kane
Randy, I am here for you in anyway you need or desire. Call me if I can be of any help or support. Leonard

Anonymous said...

My wife, Miranda, and I are praying for you as are all the artists in the Fishers Artists family. God bless you, heal you, and comfort you.

Tim Brinkman
Fishers Artists Agency

nat said...

Hi Mrs. Barkley! BD and I are praying for you daily. We love you and your family so much!

"The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you." Numbers 6:24-25

Love always,
Bryan, Natalie (& London) Davis

Anonymous said...

Barb...Was just thinking about you. You are in my prayers. Love you bunches.

Trudy

Anonymous said...

Barb! Scott and I are daily praying for you. Praying that God's glory is revealed in you and through you on a daily basis. We are believing that God is going to heal you completely and we cannot wait to see how your journey will draw others to Him by your strong and unwavering faith. WE LOVE YOU!!

Scott & Nikki Windham

Anonymous said...

Aunt Barb
Please know just how much you mean to us all. Alicia and I will be praying and sending our love from Guam. I love you. Shawn